Sometimes this actually becomes essential to keep the family together. Denial is a major problem faced by the families affected by the habit of alcoholism. In the beginning even the members of the families try to deny and protect the drinker from social stigma. When they continue to do this, little do they realize how much they are harming the family member in the process. Denial does not allow them to look for help at the right time thereby worsening the situation and creating a lot of emotional problems for the children. By denying the obvious, they only worsen the situation.

Members of the family of the drinker become dependent on each other and they tend to go into a shell. In order to protect the image of the family and maintain prestige and social image, they avoid bringing home friends. In due course of time, they tend to become loners themselves avoiding company altogether. They do all this in order to project an image that they are a perfect family leading a perfectly balanced life.

One sad aspect of all this is that the members of the drinker’s family, especially the spouse at one stage finds that he or she does not have anything else in life other than to pay their attention to the alcoholic and keep trying to cure or control them. They keep spending all their time protecting their dependent and trying to keep them away from trouble caused due to their habit. They are forced to lie to the drinker’s office friends and boss and protecting their family image becomes top priority for them. They spend most of their time cooking up excuses for the alcoholic’s behavior.

There is still hope for such families. Organizations like the Alcoholics Anonymous are a boon to families facing problems related to alcoholism. The main thing is that the members of the family must accept firmly that there is a problem, a major one at that, and decide to go in for treatment.

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